My Own Decision

Some of the most common things I see on the various Facebook support groups I follow include what brands of vitamins to take to save money, and what finally made people decide that surgical weight loss was the way to go.

If you've ready my story, you know how I arrived here. For those of you that didn't read it, my size was defining physical limitations that were becoming more limiting by the day, so it was time to do something about it.

I thought about surgery from the start of physical therapy for a knee and hip injury in July 2016 and applied through Johns Hopkins in October 2016. I was still not convinced when I applied, but since that twelve-page application deemed me eligible, I decided it was something to really consider. Still, however, I told myself not to make up my mind until I saw the surgeon. Even after the appointment with the surgeon, I made the first couple of appointments, which were an EGD and my first appointment with my Primary Care Provider, I still wasn't convinced. Either way though I was going to lose a little weight. I don't know exactly when my mind was made up, but by the second month of my process, I knew that surgery was the right choice for me.

To oversimplify my thought process, I'm going to break this up into Pros and Cons.

Pros:
1. I will lose weight quickly: This one speaks for itself. No other program boasts up to a 75% excess weight loss in 18 months.
2. I am more likely to keep it off: Of course everyone I talk to has a cousin that has a friend that had the surgery and then gained it all back and then some. But, the numbers tell me that more people have greater long term success due to surgery. This surgery is altering how my body absorbs food, so as long as I'm not actively seeking out all of the loop holes, I will be successful.
3. All of the other pros of weight loss: More energy, less over all pain, better fertility. All the things that other programs can offer as well as weight loss surgery.

Cons:
1. Surgery is scary: Someone is knocking you out to the point where you can't even breathe on your own and rerouting your body. Yes, its scary. But I was deemed medically necessary by the surgical team as well as my insurance, so this must be a risk worth taking.
   Counterpoint: My first surgery was when I was 28 years old. It was a tonsillectomy and I needed it. Like, my tonsils touched when I swallowed and were terribly infected so my quality of life was not too good. I was scared, but I knew I had to do it, otherwise every few months I would be sick for a week at a time, and each time I got sick, it got worse. Finally one day I realized that I'm one bad turn of the steering wheel or even one bad step, away from needing emergency surgery where I would have the time to go through my own existential crisis. That actually soothed me.
2. There are no guarantees it will work: Yes the surgery makes your stomach a lot smaller, but I can just change my eating habits and get it all in. There are ways for this to fail and the surgeon and your team are not with you all day helping with your choices. One side effect of the long pre-op is you have plenty of time to think and decide if this is really right for you.
3. Possible complications: Every surgery carries risk and unfortunately these risks are multiplied for those who are overweight/obese.
   Counterpoint: See con 1. You never know when you need surgery. Also, if you follow the instructions to the letter, you decrease the chance of complications significantly.