Coping with New Normals

Dealing with not being able to overeat again.

There are a lot of fears when it comes to surgery. For me, the fear of the surgery itself was shadowed by the fear of what was to come, and I know I'm not alone.

I can remember in my days pre-op I would over eat from time to time and I would be incredibly uncomfortable. I wanted to sleep, but the rock in my stomach was uncomfortable. I wanted to walk, but the desire to stay still was just as strong.

It's not something you think about until you know this is a sensation you won't really experience again.

For those of you who are pre-op/searching/looking for a friend. The three stages most patients go through, however the timelines are different, are:

Full Liquids: Protein shakes, yogurt, cottage cheese, ricotta cheese, water, jello, pudding (1 week)
Pureed Foods: If it blends you can have it (3 weeks)
Soft Foods: Pretty much everything except nuts, raw fruits and vegetables, and the skins of fruits and vegetables (3 weeks)

During the first week, the goal was literally a tablespoon at a time of "foods" besides water. This number increases as even the week goes on. By the time I got to pureed food, I had half of a baby food container at a time.

The sensation of overeating makes what I used to go through look like a walk in the park. Every time I overate until about three months in, I would get the foamies.

There are tons of articles about the foamies. But I would describe it was a mucusy, saliva vomit. Very little food comes up, but after a few minutes with the foamies, I would be ok. Not 100%, but more comfortable.

I don't get the foamies anymore because I don't allow myself to get there. Every once in a while I'll eat something my pouch doesn't want to process, or I'll have just a little too much, and I just take a nap to deal with it.

There are times where I'm eating, and I'll literally have food in the spoon, and that's all I have, and I'll leave it there. Literally, one spoonful is the difference between being comfortable and foamies.

So, people wonder how I do it. Because I know what's coming if I eat even just a hair too much. It's as easy as that. I had several bouts with foamies and being uncomfortable, and I think of those as learning experiences. Once a patient gets a handle on that, they should be ok.